EFT Script for parents of adult children who are addicted!
EFT Tapping Script for parents of adult drug addicts!
If you or someone you know is dealing with the pain of an adult child who is addicted to drugs or alcohol, please tap along with me if this speaks to you. Or send it to someone who may benefit from it.
Before beginning, calculate from a scale of 1 to 10 what the level of powerlessness or distress that you feel. Write that number down. Note if you feel it physically and write that number down.
If this is the first time tapping or need a refresher follow this link to my website and look at my chart and instructions.
KC – say three times while tapping on the KC point with either hand, ” Even though I feel powerless and it hurts to think I can’t help my child, I am open to deeply and completely accepting all my feelings anyway.”
Tapping Sequence:
Tap about 7 to 10 times on each of the following energy points while repeating the Reminder Phrase or create your own phrase on your own truth.
TH = this powerlessness
EB = it really hurts to feel powerless
SE = I don’t have any control of this
UE = It is true, that is how I feel
UN =I have tried everything to help
UL = Nothing has worked
CB = It hurts to think I can’t help
UA = It really hurts that even the little things don’t help
TH = I feel I should be able to help
EB = I am supposed to help my child
SE = I think I am helping but I am not
UE = I have tried lots of things
UN =I am angry and I resent it
UL = Nothing works and they are still using
CB = I can feel the hurt in my chest and throat
UA = What if I could let go of this a little bit?
TH = What if I could?
EB = This really hurts
SE = I am also angry at my son or daughter
UE = It is true, that is how I feel
UN =What if I could let go of the hurt or anger a little bit
UL = I am just stating how I truly feel
CB = I have been stuck in this for awhile
UA = I acknowledge how I feel
TH = What if I could feel differently and let go of the pain
Focus on distress again and rate it.
If 0, stop.
If 1 or more, repeat Setup with same phrase as above or modify it to change it to your true feelings. Tap on your own truth and notice the shifts!
In addition to my own knowledge and experiences that EFT does help with all kinds of addictions including food, drugs and alcohol, sex, retail therapy, cigarettes and anything else one may be addicted to, I came across an article from www.emofree.com.
In this article, Kelly End describes using EFT in her 12 step programs, on the personal inventory part of the program. She describes how EFT works beautifully on neutralizing specific negative events and the end result is healing.
If this script helped you shift your focus even a little bit but need a personal approach, please contact me today for your free private consultation to see what personal EFT Sessions can do for you to help you truly shift your feelings, thoughts and beliefs so you may experience true power and change your life to the life you are truly meant to live,
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I am glad that you received help from someone and you liked the tapping script. EFT/Tapping is commonly used in addictions and there are many EFT/Tapping specializes in that field. I wish you the best.